Serious question

TheOleCurmudgeon · 2022-04-02T14:39:21+00:00

If there’s really truly nothing there it’s the right thing to do to cut her loose so she can find someone who does want her and to make babies with her. This is NOT going to improve and eventually she’s going to figure out you feel nothing and so will the kids. I’d figure out how to love her or immediately cut her loose. Be kind

Vegetable-Wealth-798 · 2022-04-02T14:36:44+00:00

Ok was happy bachelor, thought I’d like being married so I married at age37 now 1.5 years married no kids yet.. after a few months turns out this is not as I thought (the idea of marriage did not match reality) nothing wrong with my wife nor her family..she is super happy and her family too.. I pretend to be happy . While I’m sad ..and my ultimate fantasy is to be divorced on the other hand I realize its my mistake.. it not fair for her and I know this will break her for months if not forever maybe she won’t get married again and I feel responsible so I will go on with life being married and try to make the best of it .. any one disagrees?

A_Hunter_Must_Hunt · 2022-04-02T17:44:46+00:00

jdozerr · 2022-04-02T18:00:26+00:00

This seems like my situation but reversed roles my wife wants to be divorced and I don’t, we are all happy but her idk why and I’m already breaking.

ghostiewm · 2022-04-03T16:55:17+00:00

Seems like you need professional help. Figure out why you thought marriage would make you better, and why now not marriage. This is usually called splitting. In the world of all possibilities we settle for a few answers. Go talk to a shrink.

Title	Serious question
Author	Vegetable-Wealth-798
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	April 2, 2022 2:36 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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