The divorce filing in in, but everything is still up in the air legally. She's moving into her own place next weekend and has been boxing things up.

Most things are fine. When it comes to furniture and appliances, etc. -- not so clear. She wants to take half the matching living room stuff as well as the kitchen table and chairs. That would leave me with nowhere to eat. I am considering making it a either/or with other stuff. Maybe if she takes the table, I keep the microwave, toaster oven, iron and ironing board... Basically ensuring that we each have stuff that we need to go and buy.

Any suggestions on how to negotiate these things would be great. Otherwise it's just nice to commiserate.