Just wanted some feedback. I'll keep the details short. I have been on supervised visits for over a year with my two sons, while having custody of my older son 17 with a different mother. Sadly I had to move home with my elderly parents whom have health issues as they are my supervisors so bring my other sons 10 and 5 to their house was not an option. I have been getting contact through phone calls and some video calls but it has been a long time since the middle of March since I have seen them. This last friday we decided I should be able to see them somewhere that would be safe however she is trying to place her self in the position of supervisor. I declined this as we had an awful divorce and I am currently awaiting to get back to court to make adjustments to our order as it was extremely over kill and unnecessary. I offered to pay for the entire amount for me to hire a court appointed supervisor as she would have to drop them leave the area and return later to get them. All of this is so annoying but I can not trust her, I also am paying for a medically trained evaluator so that person can make court approve evaluations of our interactions to continue to support my case. I have tried to negotiate with her for over a year to remove this and she has been completely unwilling however my order states 11 to 7 every Saturday and I have them every weekend up till this point and alone every weekend before we went to custody court. I offered to not even adjust anything in terms of support payments for the increase time and release of supervision. I already have set up everything and we are ready to go for this Saturday. My lawyer presented everything to her lawyer and it has been a few days with no response. What would be the point not to just agree? It is costing my almost 1I to just see my kids for 2 hours after I have to setup my and her intake fees and the hourly rate. The only thing I can believe is that power and control are so important over the relationship between my boys and I and she knows this will hurt her in court.