I can’t take it anymore. My wife and I have been on a trial separation for about 3 months now. We’re presently seeing an MFT to work out our differences. I’m no saint, I was hiding my smoking (cigarettes, been clean from drugs for 15 years though I had a slip with a beer 5 years ago). And used my personal credit cards to buy them. There are other factors for our separation though. I can only look at my part. Today, she called me an abusive father. That I neglect our child (1 year come this month) and that I’m abusive. Where the truth is I have always showed up on our agreed visitation. I understand that with him being so young he needs to stay at our home and keep the routine.

There were many times that she cancelled my visitation because she was mad at me. The last straw is her accusing me of being abusive. I won’t stand for it. I guess I’m just venting here...