I recently watched a friend of mine go through a situation. His wife cheated on him. At first his wife told him she needed space, so he went to live with his mother. Shortly after that one of their two kids called my friend. He told my friend that some other man was at the house. His son is in middle school and the other in elementary. The children are two years apart. His son told the other guy you’re not my dad what are you doing here. My friend confronted his wife about it and she denied it. Why he believed her I don’t know. Now my friend is a walking zombie. He’s like zoned out in his own world. He responds when you call him by his name but he’s not there. As for his wife they had a birthday party for one of the children. I noticed and some other people noticed. That her and the DJ seemed to know each other. The flirtatious vibe was very evident. After she introduce the DJ to everyone, they went outside and talked for a while by themselves. That whole time my friend stayed in the backyard with the kids. 🤔🤷‍♂️ He never explain to anybody what happened, or the details behind it. All I know is that they are back together. What I do know is that she goes out by herself. Some of our friends have seen her out by herself. She has asked one of my good friends that’s a girl, let’s go out no boyfriends.

Which is why I have two questions:

  1. As a separated man, what are the two biggest issues you’re dealing with?
  2. Regarding divorce, what would you wish for more than anything else?