So over 6 months since my wife left me, originally becuase she didnt want any relationship or sexual contact ( even thou we did have great times lol ). A month later sleeping with a friend of the family in secret ( go figure to 1st excuse) And now she left becuase she was lonely. And I know us men we sometimes miss the hints, but she admits she could have just said.

Not that I believe much of what she said,you know you ended up sleeping with a family friend after a few weeks??????

Anyway I was a broken mess, many a night layed awake thinking, it will be ok we will get back together, she made a mistake, she was mentally unwell. We were made for eachother 20 years is to much to lose, too much to give up on.

And then im telling you, one day it clicks. I lost her nothing else, and believe me she lost a whole lot more in the end. Just having a husband that was there for her through anything allways there to help if you just asked.

Yes she got the house and everything in it. But i still have my family and friends, luckily for me I have the kids 50/50 ( I do feel for other when they struggle with ex's and kids its not fair) But you do just click and think, im better of with out her. Things then get easier you do move on slowly, your not fussed about what there doing who they are with.

Basically I just wanted to say as I use the post on here a lot to relate to but the most important thing you are going to need is TIME.

It will happen you will get there just give it time. You may never get propper clouser but now I dont need it.

Might not help some so im sorry your going through a shit time but might help someone to know, time will heal you.