An Extremely Mean-Spirited Video

thithothith · 2026-04-06T20:08:09+00:00

Wow, so you can just win an argument by not confronting the initial point at all?

guys take issue with how they're expected to give their female partners flowers and do courting in general and it isn't reciprocated at all, and she just talks on about male on male affection which wasn't even part of the original complaint. what a brilliant argument approach 🙃

Interesting-Back6587 · 2026-04-06T20:09:17+00:00

I sincerely have no idea what the point of this video was. However, one things for certain that girl is clearly very unhappy to make a video like this.

DeliciousSTD · 2026-04-06T20:13:46+00:00

Remember shes always the bridesmaid

But never the bride.

I wonder why..

AfghanistanIsTaliban · 2026-04-06T21:48:40+00:00

She insults men because of their lack of domain knowledge on flowers. OK, but you don't need to know the names of flowers to look at them and purchase them. Also, what type of peonies is she asking for? There are many kinds of herbaceous peonies yet she can't name them all.

It's mansplaining/sexism when a man does this btw. Can't buy a car because you don't know how a transmission works. Can't buy gaming PCs because you don't know what a pagefile is. Etc etc. It must be very tiring to think this way of other people

AfghanistanIsTaliban · 2026-04-06T21:23:17+00:00

"Male loneliness epidemic propaganda"

How often is "male loneliness" invoked as MRA propaganda, and how often is it invoked derisively on TikTok, BlueSky, etc.?

The real propaganda is Straw Masculinity - creating and bashing a strawman/caricature of masculinity when it is far more complex than what academics commonly describe. There's Wolf of Wall Street masculinity, Rocky masculinity, Fast & Furious, Silicon Valley, etc. If masculinity was only about being physically strong or avoiding even the appearance of effeminacy, then the men working in software or finance would look pathetic. Yet we are supposed to believe that those fields are masculine and intimidating towards women.

henrysmyagent · 2026-04-06T22:58:08+00:00

She thinks she sounds empathetic?

No one would mistake her for having empathy.

PassengerCultural421 · 2026-04-07T02:08:29+00:00

Ah yes "the more empathic gender".

Njon32 · 2026-04-07T00:30:44+00:00

So... What other unfortunate thing happened in your life regarding men that you're sad about?

I know what peonies are. I'm not going to say that it's gay.

russwriter67 · 2026-04-07T13:03:47+00:00

Is her “empathy” in the room with us right now? Personally, I think both people in a relationship should get gifts and affection. A lot of these women seem to think that men don’t care about or want any affection. And men show love for their friends very differently than women, so they’re likely not going to buy flowers for them. 😟😟😟

MaximumTangerine5662 · 2026-04-07T09:35:00+00:00

Shouldn't even be at a wedding with this type of mindset (referring to video.).

clouddog-111 · 2026-04-07T21:26:32+00:00

I want flowers because I like them, not because I want to document them 🫩

Ok-Consideration8724 · 2026-04-09T18:48:57+00:00

Same lady. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8gY3Xu9/

ChimpPimp20 · 2026-04-10T16:10:08+00:00

Yep, she’s definitely under 25…I hope.

Impossible_Fall_3753 · 2026-04-07T18:55:32+00:00

if you think this is mean…😭😭😭 She makes a great point about how men expect a woman to care and spoil them, but will not care for their own homeboys

Title	An Extremely Mean-Spirited Video
Author	meeralakshmi
Upvotes	116
Comments	20
Date	April 6, 2026 7:53 PM UTC (3 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/EverydayMisandry
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