I realized i was wrong

TuesdayNightLive · 2024-05-15T06:07:59+00:00

The important thing is, you've realized the wrongness of the RP stuff early in your life! You have your whole life ahead of you OP, and things can only get better as you continue to move away from those miserable people and towards reality and healing.

I know it probably feels so scary right now, and there might be a feeling of being lost, but admitting you were wrong is a HUGE step in the right direction and I'm proud of you for taking it ^w^

Just be kind to yourself, watch stuff that's funny and unproblematic, maybe read a book you enjoy or go outside to do something fun like see a movie or go to a library or get your favorite non-alcoholic drink. Reward yourself for taking the first step to being in a better mental place and growing into a healthier, kinder, happier you. You deserve it!

And in time, with patience, I truly think you'll get more comfortable and be much better able to deal with the insecurities, trauma and feelings you've struggled with. The struggles never fully go away, but they get easier once you have ways to properly cope with them (real cope, not fake 'that's cope, bro' cope, of course! )

You can do it OP!!! :D

tesheabebe · 2024-05-15T07:33:49+00:00

Its just what it is. It is part of life to to believe in irrational and stupid things. You either be lucky to change or have defined your life based on stupid ideas. Do not worry it will only make you stronger and take some online content with grain of salt. it is only natural to take shelters when you have scars that is what happened to me b/c i had not given a time to approach girls and took the redpill shelter that blamed others for my responsibility i guess

Rozenheg · 2024-05-15T08:16:21+00:00

Good for you.

Mabchi · 2024-05-15T06:12:47+00:00

So sorry to hear about that you have trauma , it’s difficult and I can see why they see this as an easy target. But I am glad you have this realization. It takes self reflection and the ability to say “yes it worked for me in the past, but now I realized this does no longer fit my framework of thinking and I am ready to expand my knowledge and better myself.” If it’s okay to ask how long have you been part of the redpill content

okko1001 · 2024-05-15T18:56:13+00:00

which part did u realize was wrong specifically?

GladysSchwartz23 · 2024-05-15T20:22:52+00:00

I know how embarrassing it is to realize when you were taken in by something, but that feeling is gonna fade -- and that sucky experience is going to give you the ability to help talk other people out of that crap, because you'll understand them better than other people who don't have that experience. Speaking from experience, sometimes we gotta try something out before we understand why it doesn't work, and while that's not pleasant, it gives you some perspective you might not otherwise have.

give yourself time to feel your feelings, but also treat yourself to some nice experiences, especially things that take you away from internet bubbles of negativity. And be proud of yourself for recognizing the bullshit! The people selling you that shit are really good at preying on guys like you, and you saw through them! That's huge!

There will be more work to do to overcome some of the more ingrained shitass ideas you're trying to separate from, and you're going to feel frustrated and dumb, and people won't always be nice. But you're on a road that will make you a better and happier person, and that's awesome.

SilverTango · 2024-05-17T04:27:48+00:00

You might want to look into Cult Education Institute. Red pill is a cult. It will help bring you to a place of understanding and healing.

mehhh-6 · 2024-05-15T09:28:49+00:00

Red pill all way

Title	I realized i was wrong
Author	chels4ever
Upvotes	64
Comments	11
Date	May 15, 2024 5:09 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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