I'm not saying that this is a "miracle cure" for red pill ideology. What I've tried to do is think of a way that gives someone a snapshot of what beliefs that they hold and how close these are to manosphere thinking.

One thing I want to happen, is that my idea could help find the underlying seeds, that made red pill BS sound slightly realistic.

This might sound like a super odd question, but I hope that a good faith answer can give you some insight about what kind of ideas that you have around society, gender roles, masculinity/femininity, etc.

THE QUESTION:

Imagine a much less toxic society than today. Whatever ailments that caused the existence of the manosphere in the first place, isn't present.

What percentage of men, in this ideal society, will never find a romantic/sexual partner - despite them actively looking for one?

Why do you believe that's the answer?

The number you give is pretty telling, but I think that the Why answer is where all the red meat is at.

What do you guys think, do you think that this might help you out? The question might need to be reformulated, perhaps?

I hope that this is something that you can ask yourself multiple times, over a longer span of time, to see if your answer changes and how it has done so.