"the one who cares less in the relationship, is the leader of the relationship"

Ive seen some redpillers/PUA's make this claim, or one's similar to it. The idea is that whoever cares less about the other person in a relationship, is the one who leads/rules/owns the relationship, Creating a dynamic where the person who cares more serves the other, while the one who cares less gets all the benefit while focusing mostly on themselves. Redpillers claim that women love a man who cares about her less than he cares about his 'perpose' or something like that. "you have to stay on the grind to keep a women attracted" sort of idea. Meanwhile, if a man cares more about the women rather than vice versa, then she'll just use him/betabuxx him.

What is your opinion on this Redpill idea?