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The Red Pill Community in a Nutshell...

rudistidwekiqn80

December 10, 2022
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Title The Red Pill Community in a Nutshell...
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rudistidwekiqn80

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Comments 25
Date December 10, 2022 1:06 PM UTC
(3 years ago)
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[–]lordkuruku 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You are in the wrong subreddit dude. Because it presents as the latter and brainwashes as the former.

[–]rudistidwekiqn801 points 3 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

exexredpilller

[–]lordkuruku 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Then go do it somewhere else, fucknuts

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

awwww....

[–]propyl21 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Erm... If you're an ex red piller, do you know what message you are pushing with that meme?

Red pill men certainly and categorically are not the right pane in your post. Quite the opposite.

As a reminder, red pill teaches the dark triad of psychology. That is: Machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy. Please read up on them.

[–]waffleznstuff30 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

If it was just hey let's work on personal development and growth after a break up or traumatic event I don't think anyone would have an issue with TRP.

You are missing the whole woman hating thing. That's the core issue most people have with RP. If it was a movement about personal development and healthy boundaries for men like you wouldn't see a lot of backlash. "AWALT" "cock carousel" "AF/BB" "women are incapable of love and hypergamous in nature" "the wall" "female nature". You tell a traumatized hurt guy who has had negative experiences with a woman that women are actually terrible heartless creatures who only want something from you it's not going to help them recover and move on it's gonna just mess up future relationships and a man will not be able to connect with his new partners.

[–]DustyDingo1887 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Why are women allowed to trash men and call them out after a bad relationship/experience and make sweeping statements about all men and how bad they are while guys can’t advice other guys by saying “hey maybe it’s best we avoid certain types of women who have proven time and time again to be bad for us and not relationship material”?

[–]waffleznstuff30 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I don't necessarily agree with trashing all men. There are bad behaviors that come up in relationships due to men and men's expectations of women which can be unlearned. Men not understanding women and the refusal (I would say ignorance but it's not) to learn and understand them. The expectation of women being submissive to a man. The lack of emotional intelligence/regulation in men. The bizarre pedestal that sex is placed on leading to sexual coercion and making a relationship transactional. Male partners usually reaping the benefits of a relationship but not giving anything back to it. These are issues women have in a lot of relationships with men. Red pill ideology only cements these things it doesn't work to address them.

Yes and no a lot of these "types" of women are people. And typically there is nuance to people. There is nothing wrong with having preferences I do agree. But 18-20 yr old as preference because they have been with less people and won't know better sounds like grooming. The body count thing which yes there is a such thing as too much if you are triple digits I would understand not dating them because likely they may be looking and only interested in casual relationships and probably doesn't do long term. But calling someone ran through because they have a body count is stupid. And using pseudoscientific to try and justify it saying women cannot pair bond and crap. It's disingenuous.

I do have a laugh I'm an amazing partner and the red pill would tell men to run.

[–]DustyDingo1887 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You made a whole laundry list of things wrong with men and our perceptions followed by an entire laundry list of negative things that men should excuse about women…

Do you understand how unbelievably dense and tone deaf that came off?

So men should put up with women who have a ton of bodies and are known to have poor pair bonding with other accompanying toxic behaviors and eat shit when it eventually plays out the way it always does and also subscribe to notions that don’t make sense and don’t give him any sort of advantage in being successful in a relationship and in fact leave him in a worst unfavorable position…

But women shouldn’t have to change anything about themselves and continue operating the way they do and men should just be the submissive ones and be ok with as you put it “ran through women” despite past experiences indicating those women are not relationship material?

You can’t have your cake and eat it too.

I never advocated for dating a certain age. Only men should choose women who display attributes that would indicate a positive healthy non-toxic mindset. Which women who usually have tons of bodies more than often simply don’t embody

[–]waffleznstuff30 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh there's issues for women too. I think gold digging is an abhorrent behavior. I think the expectation to sit around and have a man pay for you is childish and lazy. The over 6ft thing is dumb. My boyfriend is 5'10 and like perfect. Hygiene and a clean home in a single man isn't crazy that's reasonable. Being able to trust a man and if you cant you shouldn't date them? Women most certainly can be abusive and toxic and to pretend otherwise is dishonest and should be held accountable. Women can be predatory too. Expecting a traditional relationship from a man but you yourself do not subscribe to being traditional and feeling disappointed that he has traditional views is like shooting yourself in the foot. I personally avoid trad men like the plague. Though they are really into goths for some reason.

There are things I get with men. Dating someone with kids is understandable. Not because the person is invaluable or bad. But that's a lot more to take on and it's not easy for someone who doesn't have children to take it on. I wouldn't want to date a single father because I am clueless about children so I get not wanting to date someone with kids.

It's a lot of nuanced than that. We can pair bond just fine. Relationships don't work out perhaps a fling or two maybe a hook up sex doesn't detract or take away a person's value. There may be some women who do have issues or perhaps unresolved mental trauma. People can grow. People are dynamic and changing. Now there are things like cheating that are not to be looked over both men wnd women. Also advantages and disadvantages in a relationship? My guy it's not war it's two people coming together. That's the benefit and being successful and mutually existing together. It's not one party benefits the other is at a disadvantage.

I wouldn't want a man to be submissive to me as I wouldn't want to be submissive to my man. It's a relationship it's supposed to be sweet and loving love isn't warring sides quarreling for who wears the pants who's above who. We are equal partners on equal footing. No one is better or above you support each other mutually and show up to meet your partners needs. If he needs something do it. If I need something he does it. It's not dominance/submission like there is a place for that and usually there is consent involved. A relationship is about both people giving to each other. It's mutual respect for one another.

In regards to ran through. Relationships don't work sometimes. It's going to be a process to find someone that works for you and it's a lesson not a tick in your record and not being able to find someone you just found someone who doesn't work for you. So maybe you gain insight which means you won't stick around if you find that mistake. Relationships take a lot of self awareness which I think both genders should reflect on.

[+]DustyDingo1887 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Damaged men = toxic

Toxic women = nuanced

Ok got it

[–]waffleznstuff30 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Toxic women usually self reflect at some point and heal. So nuanced.

Toxic men will continue to stay toxic refuse to change because they don't see anything wrong with their behavior.

I think therapy and healing is the way to go for both parties.

[–]DustyDingo18871 points 3 years ago [recovered] (11 children) | Copy Link

Bro this is a very reasonable meme that doesn’t really disrespect anyone yet the cucked white knights and their feminists masters still won’t accept it

[–]Xx_SwordWords_xX 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Treating women as humans doesn't make you cucked.

[–]DustyDingo1887 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Not letting yourself get played and falling into docility and being feeble by subscribing to these ideologies pushed on here doesn’t make you misogynistic

[–]Xx_SwordWords_xX -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

What does "getting played" by a person, have to do with half of the human population?

Let's reverse it.

Man breaks a woman's heart, so she then decides to treat all men as sub-human, forever.

Makes sense, right?

[–]DustyDingo1887 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

No it doesn’t because at no point was treating people as subhuman brought up. You are just strawmaning and reaching. You also failed to justify or explain why it’s ok for women to trash all men after a bad experience but why it’s wrong for men to advise other men to avoid certain types of women…..

You are the one who needs to make sense because you simply just aren’t

[–]Xx_SwordWords_xX 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

at no point was treating people as subhuman brought up.

I'm bringing it up.

Let's talk this through, shall we? What exactly do you mean by "white-knighting"?

[–]DustyDingo1887 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I’m not gonna write a long walk of text to tell you why. You know exactly why men who support feminism are all wrong and down bad. Men get nothing from being feminists or subscribing to ideologies like that other than further dis-serving themselves and other men in a society that has already afforded more than a great many privileges to women at the expense of men and continues to in a ever increasing detrimental manner.

Male feminists not only rarely get anything from their posturing and grand standing. They actively eat shit and give up any masculinity they ever had and bask in being weak and taken advantage of by women that hate them or don’t take them seriously. It’s a backhanded pathetic way of achieving social validation and invalid misguided bill of goods for men because society is already at the point where men are down bad and women have well surpassed the common man on the societal latter. Being feeble and docile and self flagellating is not Virtuous

[–]Xx_SwordWords_xX 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You won't answer the question, because it proves my point: What exactly do you mean by "white-knighting"?

Your drivel above, is exactly what I'm saying.... You treat women as lesser (subhuman), and you think you are justified in doing so, for whatever reason (see drivel).

Why do you have to "get" something from women, in order to treat them as equals? You sound like a psychopath or sociopath.

[+]DustyDingo1887 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No one deserves special treatment without gaining respect first. Your idea of equal is rolling out the carpet and flying through hoops for women and feeding into their political and social agendas and playing along despite the disdain many types of feminist would have for men. You assume I believe women dont deserve equal treatment because you’ve been conditioned to believe that feminism has the patent on women having equal treatment and rights, while thinking opposing aspects of it entirely infringe on a man’s ability to treat women equally. This is such a common obfuscation deflection tactic with feminists and their male subordinates is they think feminism is the only lenses one can view treating g women equally with while most modern feminists don’t care about equality or Allies and want subordinates to bend the knee to whatever they want.

You think simping and white knighting for women is equality… it’s not. Equality is treating women how you’d treat anyone else (which means NO special treatment) and it’s become increasingly obvious in our society women not only already have that but already have plenty of advantages and certainly don’t need men to simp and posture for them in the name of alliship or feminism other than for trying to get laid or just being outright pathetic and delusional

[–]Xx_SwordWords_xX 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

You are full of knowledge about "what I think", without me stating anything of the sort... 🙄 That's just plain delusional, boo.

No one deserves special treatment without gaining respect first.

Where did I say "special treatment", or where did anyone on this thread you claim is "white-knighting", say anything of the sort?

I'm talking about basic human respect for others' rights and needs, regardless of gender, and not at the cost of others.

Respecting women as people, costs you nothing.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

holy shit bro. You're on -7 downvotes. You've really pissed them off loooool :)

[–]DustyDingo1887 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This group is a psyop. I seen nothing on here but feeble men who feel hopeless looking for advice in all the wrong places. Asking feminists and their spineless orbiters advice is the worst thing a man looking for real advice can do. Not saying all the advice is bad on here but I’ve just seen a lot of blind leading the blind or a lot of misleading here. I’m not a red piller and don’t subscribe to that ideology either but can be sure red pill has far more useful things to say to men than feminists and their pathetic male feminist simps who have 0 interest in helping men

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