Has anybody else ever had those moments where you love and lust someone's insecurities and imperfections?

I mean the sort of relationship where they are not perfect, and you realize you are not perfect either.

And then the two of you go off and become completely imperfect together.

This is the sort of relationship where you are not in it to be provided for, or to have them provide for you

You're not in it for a mortgage and babies or status or other people's opinion....and neither are they.

Maybe that's the start of sanity and the beginning of the stuff that poets write about.

The moment when you just say Fk all this chasing....what the hell was I even chasing?

I love the way their eyes glaze over.

That's worth more than $$, social approval or anything else.

Then you think hey, if that person with the glassy eyed stare and the coy smile thinks I"m ok, then to hell with what the rest of the world thinks.

That to me is what I think is as good as it gets.

The "Suddenly Seymour" moments. Maybe the two of you one day will share the cost of a manufactured house, become a pair of losers on a patch of astro turf and that's all you need.