TRP unfortunately has truths to it

Megaprana · 2025-04-13T23:40:12+00:00

Sounds like you’ve had some tough experiences, but it’s important not to generalise. Women don’t all act the same way. They’re a very large, very varied group of people.

TRP probably does have some truths to it. Most movements do. But TRP almost always comes to the wrong solutions.

Personal_Dirt3089 · 2025-04-13T23:47:15+00:00

Have you ever considered that your definition of "emotionally available" might not line up with the right amount?

Being "emotionally available" does not mean you need to speed into commitment asap, it does not mean you have to be a doormat, it does not mean you have to act like your life depends on her to be happy.

actuallyacatmow · 2025-04-13T23:49:44+00:00

All of the successful heterosexual relationships I know have emotionally available men with women.

I'm sorry you had poor experiences with women in this manner. I think the reality is that both genders struggle with being emotionally open.

Vast-Worry8935 · 2025-04-13T23:51:38+00:00

"The demon is a liar. He will lie to confuse us. But he will also mix lies with the truth to attack us."

-Father Merrin, The Exorcist

That's how I view The Redpill. Mixing lies with truths.

Conscious_Stress817 · 2025-04-14T04:36:12+00:00

Well, if these types if movements didn't have truth to them, they wouldn't have gained any traction. These men create a need so they can sell you the solution. A good comparison would be the beauty industry with women.

But tbh I really think that many people, regardless of gender, are capable of this. Fwiw, I've also absolutely been in relationships with men who did not respect me & became distant when I opened up to them, rather, they even used my vulnerabilities in order to abuse me. I've even had platonic friends, both male and female, do that.

Honestly? Those people are not the ones worth being in any kind of relationship or friendship with.

xvszero · 2025-04-13T23:41:11+00:00

No it doesn't. And how you feel about it based on your limited, selective experience isn't particularly relevant to 4 billion women.

VicTheSage · 2025-04-14T00:20:36+00:00

Yeah it's a fine line we have to thread as men. My gf has told me she wouldn't have been attracted to me if I was "too nice" and actually didn't continue with someone she went on a date with right before me for exactly that reason.

I don't buy into all the Red Pill BS but I do try to maintain total honesty in all my interpersonal relationships. Mind you I'm not rude but rather up front. I can't stress enough the importance of expressing yourself clearly without being rude. If you have no regard for your partners or friends feelings you're just being cruel.

None of this is true for all women as everyone has their own personality but in our culture I think girls are raised to be extremely conscious of other's emotions and to soften blows. Sometimes just being honest can come off as a little rude to women. Not enough to border on cruelty but enough to the point she doesn't view you as a pushover and lose the sexual spark.

Of course you'll meet a lot of women that don't have that somewhat outdated ingrained cultural preference for the brusk alpha male. What you won't meet is a lot of women who fit the red pill stereotype of money hungry materialistic succubi because that's an absurd generalization to make about half of the population. Sexual relationships are hard but as long as you stay honest and remember we're all just people everything will work out.

featherblackjack · 2025-04-14T04:31:52+00:00

"feels true" and "is true" are very different things. It's untrue, for example, that women don't care about your feelings. Dude, we're literally brought up punished if we don't. We're raised to do everything for a man. We're taught that if boys abuse us, it's just boys being boys. Imagine that, won't you? Walk into 3rd grade classroom knowing you're going to be pushed around and your hair yanked and nobody will help you because boys will be boys. And once you grow you risk bra snaps for which the boy doing it won't be corrected. You risk sexual assault every time you go outside, or go to work, or go to church. Boys too, but majority women.

When I say taught, I should say indoctrinated. You have no idea what it's like.

Title	TRP unfortunately has truths to it
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Date	April 13, 2025 11:34 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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