What do all think about this?

Inareskai · 2021-01-13T21:07:29+00:00

I think it says this particular woman has values I disagree with.

Is there something you think it says beyond that?

nebthefool · 2021-01-13T21:21:12+00:00

I don't like people who talk about people a high or low quality. Like the whole idea is completely ignorant of how people are. People are either good or bad at being the version of them self they'd like to be but there isn't a good way to assign universal quality to people because no two people assign the same value to peoples traits and characteristics.

The guys repeated attempts to talk for all men was fucking annoying. I do not share his values and he does not speak for me.

The insistence that her having had children lowered her value pissed me off a lot. The insistence that them being grown and independent is irrelevant pissed me off. I would not consider either of those statements reasonable.

The overall advice that the caller should consider men outside the cookie cutter preference she seems to have is good. But the reasoning that she'll die alone if she didn't and that she isn't valuable enough to want that preference is fucking stupid.

I'd tell this woman that she needs to take people as they come, that she's allowed to have standards and she's allowed to have a ideal man but the more specific the ideal the less likely that she'll find someone who fits the ideal and even if she does they may not meet the unspoken standards everyone should have. Standards like, respects me and my choices, meets my needs, supports me in my endeavors. I'd tell her to stop thinking in terms of high and low value people.

Figures the guy in the video didn't tell her that, he makes his money out of convincing people that they are low value and if they pay him enough they can be higher value.

yomimaru · 2021-01-13T22:10:52+00:00

I think their exchange was ultimately pointless. They have different needs, and the guy for some reason assumes that every man wants to have kids in some future moment of a relationship, which is obviously not always the case.

Title	What do all think about this?
Author	Isis_goddess3000
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	January 13, 2021 7:38 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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