Hey guys,

I’m a junior in high school, 17, and I recently met this amazing guy. He’s tall, cute, fit, etc.Over the last month, we’ve really gotten to know each other and he’s like the only friend I’ve met in such a long time. I feel like my life changed after meeting him. I was a loner and had really low confidence when I first met him and now I’m doing much better. I’ve gotten to be friends with some his friends. My life is just much better with him.He’s always there for me and I think he really cares about me. However, I haven’t really gotten him to commit to being in an exclusive relationship. He’s a just go with the flow type of guy and tells me not to worry when I ask him this. He tells me he’s with me literally at the moment and to not think of these things. But it’s literally impossible.

He has so many pretty female friends that he talks to on a constant basis. He could be getting intimate with them and I would have no idea. He’s just a sweet lovable guy. I’m crazy about him. He gives off player vibes honestly but he tells me that he’s not that type of guy. He could be with tons of other girls and I wouldn’t know. It drives me kinda crazy. He tells me he really enjoys our relationship but doesn’t want to be official bf/gf since he’s a senior this year and probably moving out to to college next year. Meanwhile, I’ll still be doing my last year of high school. We’ve gotten really intimate together lately. In the beginning I was trying to hold off since we weren’t official but I just couldn’t help myself. I’ve stayed over at his place overnight and I met his mom. She’s really nice and fucking gorgeous, I have no idea why he’s with me if he can date a girl that’s actually physically attractive.I really just have no idea what to do. He treats me like a friend in front of his friends. No hand holding, hugging, cuddling nada. His friends just think I’m an ugly girl he’s platonic friends with when we’re not.When we’re alone he turns on a switch and is super intimate. He tells me how gorgeous I am and I literally melt. No one has ever shown me that they cared like this guy does. I’ve never had real friends in my life and people who actually care. I’ve had all sorts of family issues, health issues and this meeting this guy just changed me.

What should I do guys? He’s like my best friend now and I don’t want to lose him. However, I feel like when he goes off to college we’re done and he’ll go off happily to a large school and be with tons of pretty girls. I’m just really confused with our relationship and just want to have commitment at least. He tells me he doesn’t like being intimate in public which might be why we don’t look like a couple to his friends. To his mom, he also introduced me to her as his friend. So I just don’t know if he’s embarrassed of the possibility of us being a couple and just wants to be good fwb. I don’t want to be the girl he’s using for intimacy. I want to be the girl he’s proud of to show off to others and things like that. Help me guys please. I’m just scared of losing him. I’ve opened up to him so much about myself and he accepts me which is something no one has ever done before. Any advice?