When i see the signs of a HVM i get anxious and self-conscious. I have always been like this from a young age because i was bullied in school for being a chubster and i had acne. Even though i am now what men would consider ‘hot’ i still am so self conscious and get so nervous around certain men. Its holding me back from actually having the guts to see a man again. I know you cant tell from a first date if someone is high value, but when i like someone or they APPEAR high value i struggle to be myself and get huge anxiety to the point where i just dont see them again. Its absolutely crazy. Any advice? I cant afford therapy.