Be true to yourself.

spectresmom16 · 2019-10-16T00:50:26+00:00

Then why are we aiming so low? 100% guilty of it, but.... why?

greenteaapplepie69 · 2019-10-15T23:46:09+00:00

Women seriously need to stop dating down. So many of us settle for guys who dont put in the effort. 👏👏

griffinknight1 · 2019-10-15T15:40:17+00:00

Wooot boy

This applies to men too I think I know a buddie whom could use this.

I’m saving this for the next guy whom sends me a dock pick

modernmedusaa · 2019-10-15T19:59:49+00:00

This is so bang on!

People don't give picky women enough credit (we are seen as 'stuck up'), we are saving people a shit ton of future stress, family turmoil and possible divorce.

how many women do you know that picked a guy that clearly fell below their league/standards (they never were a match to begin with), then spent the next few years/decades resenting, moaning and being miserable about it, often making their kids miserable in the process as well as their partners bc they never quite match up and they won't choose to improve their prospects. This leads to the woman being dumped on and refusing to leave despite the fact, this relationship makes her miserable, and she'd be better off out of it.

We avoid all this hassle, by just choosing to be patient, get savvier, and wait to find someone compatible

This is why pick me's need to work on codependency the most but won't listen to us, its like they'd rather be in a miserable draining relationship being disrespected than risk being single where they could just work on themselves in order to get a better guy. Whilst we all get duped at times, we have a choice how long we hold on for and what we put up with..and should have the esteem to walk once something doesn't serve us

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2019-10-15T15:59:14+00:00

ESPECIALLY if he lied about his "league" to begin with.

Nah, sis. IGNORE. GHOST. BLOCK. DELETE. NEXT!

2019-10-15T18:41:06+00:00

We are out of their league regarding a few character traits, not on everything. It makes no sense, we are not computers to handle everything. Some men will balance us on our weaknesses, it is not that simple.

While I do agree there might be men who will mimic our best traits to establish attraction, they might be out of our league regarding something else and if that”s not what we are looking for it does not mean they were not worth going on a date with. I think it is also important for women to consider what they have to offer for what it is outside the „out of league” package, what men can do to compensate for their flaws. ”.

xfinalexjaegerx · 2019-10-15T19:51:48+00:00

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2019-10-15T19:29:24+00:00

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s_slayer · 2019-10-15T18:04:47+00:00

I feel like this is where my marriage is at right now

Victoria1721 · 2019-10-15T17:07:47+00:00

Man, this is so where I am right now. No more settling for “close enough” just to be in a relationship!!

missmatchedsocks88 · 2019-10-16T01:19:27+00:00

This!!

victorisaskeptic · 2019-10-15T21:18:48+00:00

totally agree with this as a man. Just know that im actively looking for the upper hand and when i get it i will play my advantage

Title	Be true to yourself.
Author	aless_15
Upvotes	596
Comments	20
Date	October 15, 2019 2:16 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/di8j7r/be_true_to_yourself/
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