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[–]w0manifestFDS Apprentice13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I have ADHD, my husband does not. He is much better about remembering to take care of stuff around the house than me and has historically done more, but once I got on my new meds I was VERY motivated to do all the stuff I was neglecting and cooked and cleaned and planned and organized and did all that stuff non-stop for like two weeks. I did NOT want my husband even touching me after cause I was so burned out. Neither of us was happy. He told me no more lmao 💀
tldr; before complaining about your wife not wanting to have sex with you, make sure she isn't doing the majority of the work.
[–]psychsenseFDS Apprentice15 points16 points17 points (0 children) | Copy Link
This article I recently read says the exact opposite of what they are claiming.
“Heterosexual couples who share household chores have sex more often than couples in which the woman does the bulk of the housework, according to new research by a Cornell demographer and her colleagues.”
https://news.cornell.edu/stories/2016/08/want-more-sex-split-household-chores
[–]blackopium777FDS Apprentice13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Sharing chores 50/50 here. Can totally say, that a man who pulls his weight in the household does make me more sexually active. Because I am literally not as exhausted after a day of doing all the housework and more than that. It's so easy to understand, isn't it?
[–]ScotsburdFDS Disciple6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Yip 😁😁😁😁😁