Did you go on dating while fat ? I hate to say this but most guys I like after meeting for the first few times, they always don’t pursue relationship with me. Maybe I’m encountering though tinder. I’m 5,1 and 128lbs. I rarely shop and I have clothes lined up in my closet which consists in my future size. Aka size 0. I’m korean so we have a very harsh standards on looks and I grew up with that so I never felt satisfied. Maybe I should lower my standards ? I’ve met a guy on tinder who called Uber telling me I look different from the pic when I look pretty accurate. He was 5,5 and looked like he was only 120lbs or less. Met a guy I met for few times who met me few times and ended up in relationships with another girl. Met a guy who asked if I could introduce one of my friends to him for a date.

Maybe it’s nyc thing that guys prefer slim girls ?