Dealing with "the wall."

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-11-15T18:24:34+00:00

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Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-11-15T17:43:53+00:00

Well "The Wall" is some bullshit men made up to screw with women's heads or simultaneously pretending that they don't age. Laughs in ubiquitous male midlife crisis

Do you become less attractive as you age? Yes. That's life. Does it happen at the age that these men are saying? Absolutely not. And does it happen to the degree that they are saying? Also a total lie. Nobody drops off a cliff at 29 or 25. Not women anyway. Haha!

Also taking care of yourself goes a long way. Wearing sunscreen, eating healthy, taking care of your health, staying trim and fit. It's also important to keep your wardrobe up to date and do whatever other maintenance of your appearance that you enjoy doing. Whether that's painting your nails, dying your hair, wearing quality jewelry, or buying nice purses and shoes etc. Managing stress is also essential.

The final big factor in staying young is in your attitude and activities. You have to always be trying new things, meeting new people, learning new things. Staying fresh. Growing.

Missybanana · 2020-11-15T18:59:26+00:00

Men hit the "wall" when drinking and lack of sleep/moisturizer/self-care finally catch up with them. If they're 35 and not taking care, you'll see it. I wasn't cute by high school standards... I also was brainwashed to only think Barbie types are pretty. I still look like I did in high school (except prettier) and the older I get, the hotter I am. Men are like, there is no way you're 34.... Because they're expecting an old lady, because they've been brainwashed. For women, there is no wall. Don't smoke, wear sunscreen, exercise, and don't stress about assholes. That's all you need to do, and you'll get more beautiful with each passing year.

DrildoBagurren · 2020-11-15T19:54:52+00:00

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2020-11-15T20:20:52+00:00

Men never get more attention than women. Ever. You can be the ugliest woman and still have 10 men want to sleep with you, and in order to do that they have to give you some attention (fake their emotions until you say yes to sleeping to them).

They do get more love, but that is only because women are a more loving and caring gender to begin with. How many female serial killers or mass murderers do you know? Or how many women would say they felt comfortable walking past a lone man at night in a dark street vs a lone woman? There is a reason for that.

Men get more love because most of them date women. But most of them don’t care about love so all that effort on our part is wasted.

I see what you are saying though - it is easier for men to find commited relationships, once again, because most of them date women and that is how we are. In my experience most men even in their thirties, at least in the US, don’t want a serious relationship so it never ‘evens’ out for us. The reality is that you will have to vet hard and just expect most of them to be LVM.

As for beauty - that doesn’t make much of a difference. There are women who look like models and they still get used for sex or taken for granted. Just live your life, go on dates, be careful, and always trust your intuition.

Title	Dealing with "the wall."
Author	SuccessfulAppeal333
Upvotes	23
Comments	14
Date	November 15, 2020 4:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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