Hello ladies! New to the thread, so glad to be here!! Just getting out of a red pill relationship and doing a ton of research. Yikes dating is not easy these days (36 yr old divorcee here). I saw a video posted earlier by Sam Vakin (he's awesome) and I came across this video which got me thinking about the term 'Hypergamy' used in the red and black pill communities. In essence for those of you not aware, it's a claim that women innately are not loyal, always try to date and marry up, seeking out several partners over monogamy. After watching this video, got me thinking in a hypothetical 'AH HA!' moment for consideration:

What if ....

A LVM is truly just a narcissist. His attempts to control and have power-over a woman in a way that fits his dichotomy, he'll follow this pattern: admiration -> play-thing -> mother. If a real woman (like all of you in this group it's awesome!) does not agree to be the mother-figure, he subconsciously and ultimately pushes her away into the arms of another man. Women aren't Hypergamous by nature yet because of the immaturity of these men, she is conditioned over time to seek out another partner because the relationship is fake. Unmet needs and selfishness by than man creates this self-fulfilling prophecy of 'Hypergamy' by the man.

This further got me thinking about the all red pill ideology to 'treat women like children' is because they, themselves, are children. Their maturity is stunted. LVM looking to control a LVW. This can be even with a highly-intelligent men who are emotionally stunted (I dated one, we were both in the 'genius' level in terms of IQ.)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6nxPiDaieo