There was a post about this girl saying lot do the Ivy League guys seem like HVM but aren’t. Maybe because they used most of their time on studying but not socializing I realized few of them seriously has lack of emotional intelligence.

I tried to explain to a guy who was consultant and went to Princeton why it’s wrong to comment on other looks and he kept saying he does that with other girls but I’m the sensitive one. I asked him how his gf deals with it and his gf doesn’t make whole drama out of it like I do.

My friend told me his female friend, had a bf and she found out he wrote notes about all the girls he dated. Weighing pros and cons. One was she’s nice to me but has bad skin and keep up with intellectual conversations . And she’s only staying with him as he went to Harvard and has good connections.

Do you find yourself staying at guy who seems high value but not ? Me living in nyc, I see lot of girls who stay with the guy for the sake of the status