So, I have a crush, he doesnt know me. I know you guys dont recommend to initiate contact with a man, but could you advice how to make this guy to know about my existence if we dont know each other in real life? We live in different states, so I cant just show up at the same bar/club/neighborhood where he is at. I found him on facebook and sent friend request (he hasnt accepted it), and a message. It seems that people dont receive messages from people they are not friends with on facebook (its some weird thing with facebook). But what are my other options to introduce myself?

Thank you