How do you detect creeps when you look younger than your age?

paperbagskirt · 2020-07-05T14:24:48+00:00

The red flags I would look out for: compliments about my youthful look in particular, a history of dating very young women, preference for childlike hair and clothing on women, and porn use.

This is the kind of thing you often need some time to determine, which is why it’s always smart to vet like hell and wait a while to get attached or have sex.

IAmGoingToBeBetter · 2020-07-05T15:18:30+00:00

The guys usually come at me hard with the creepy comments. Watch for comments about your height, their disbelief about your age, also pay attention to their comments about your clothes. If they want you to wear certain things or are constantly wanting you to wear things that make you look the way they want, dump their ass immediately.

OrchidLion · 2020-07-05T15:53:25+00:00

Yeah like the others said watch out about comments regarding age, talking about school girl fantasy etc

Is it just the face shape that makes you look so young or is it also dressing sense? Maybe you could try dressing differently to make you look older? How do you dress now? (I am trying to look younger tbh so any tips would be welcome regarding clothing, makeup etc)

_Atalanta_ · 2020-07-05T16:04:10+00:00

I don't have to detect them, I have to deflect them!

I am in exactly your situation (same age) and have found that while it does happen, it is blatantly obvious that a guy is a creep. I find the problem is more with getting rid of him when you know. If you are using the tools in FDS handbook and being observant, it should become clear quite soon.

It is good to be skeptical so just try to make it healthy vetting and not paranoia.

SeaNegotiation8 · 2020-07-05T14:43:51+00:00

If he makes flirty or sexual comments about how “innocent” you look, it’s a huge red flag. Predators fetishize innocent above all other things.

Conversely, if he comments on how other women (particularly older women) are dirty, unclean, or uses misogynistic slurs like “whore”, it’s time to GTFO.

Both of these kinds of comments indicate that he has a Madonna/Whore complex, the hallmark of every predatory misogynist.

acutebabykoala · 2020-07-05T19:35:13+00:00

When I was 21 I hooked up with a 29yo guy. We knew each other cuz we used to go to the same bar and one night we got drunk and it happened. Imagine my face when, in the morning, he asked me smth like 'How old are you anyway, 15, 16?'. I thought he's joking so I laughed and told him I'm 21 and he didn't believe me, he said he could swear I'm 15...

2020-07-05T16:06:01+00:00

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Title	How do you detect creeps when you look younger than your age?
Author	endorphins_
Upvotes	46
Comments	10
Date	July 5, 2020 2:17 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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