So hello. I just found this sub a few days ago and wanted to thank all of you. I had this really shitty "relationship" kinda thing with this dude who never had time for me but managed to have time for everything else, sports, friends, etc. He still lived with his parents at 29?! And told me he didn't want a relationship but didn't want me to be with anyone else either and although I saw all of these red flags I saw so much potential in him... Today I told him that I'm no longer doing this shit bc I'm more valuable than this and I deserve someone to treat me right and who makes time for me and wants to be with me. It's still kinda hard though tbh but this sub helped me so much with following through with my decision. Thank you all I love you! Every single one of you is amazing and doing great work <3 I'm so happy to be a part of this community now.