It's really not that hard.

Pasdepromesses · 2020-08-30T03:49:14+00:00

Idk, I hate texting so I normally wouldn’t mind a bit of radio silence at all. But this text implies he didn’t text her all day and is only going to do it the next day?

I have dated very busy men and they did the ‘thinking about you’ text and always always always called me before bed. Just 5 minutes, sometimes less.

I feel like 5 minutes in 24 hours plus a ‘good morning lovely’ and ‘thinking about your during the day is bare minimum and also shows you’re on his mind. The calling is nice, you want to hear each other’s voice and you can tell about your day.

This text above makes me suspicious for some reason. I don’t know why, but I feel like he’s up to no good.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-08-30T14:29:53+00:00

The abusive ex who never had time to text or call later in the relationship is the same guy who texted or video chatted me before boarding a plane to Europe, while he waited on the tarmac, when he landed, every single day of his three week long awaited vacation, and all the way up until he landed back home. They have time when they're super into you or trying to love bomb the shit out of you to get you invested.

Title	It's really not that hard.
Author	cloudytear
Upvotes	101
Comments	7
Date	August 30, 2020 2:58 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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