Know your worth (and risks!)

_RustInPiece_ · 2020-12-31T04:06:18+00:00

Back in my sexpositive libfem days I always used to say "I don't judge". I didn't realize how I was playing the cool girl while having a pickme mindset. In reality I was afraid of loosing "friends" for having an opposing opinion. Everything changed once I discovered FDS. Now I don't chase them anymore. They have to prove to me how they add value to in my life if they want to be a part of it. I don't need incompatible people around me. Also I do judge - I always did. I'm proud for having strong but reasonable opinions instead of playing cool, dump and ignorant. Judge me <3

StillRecipe · 2020-12-31T03:21:48+00:00

I love this shade of pink. Nice message too

Jiou112 · 2020-12-31T03:47:31+00:00

Oh that last one HIT ME 😭

thedesigirll · 2020-12-31T05:11:54+00:00

This is some good advice I needed to hear today

Not_Main_Acct · 2020-12-31T11:56:46+00:00

I judge everything nowadays. I judge my bosses, coworkers, friends, husband, and myself. I have standards and expectations and judging keeps me aware.

Dontstopmenow2021 · 2020-12-31T13:20:37+00:00

YES!!

Title	Know your worth (and risks!)
Author	ellengau
Upvotes	387
Comments	7
Date	December 31, 2020 2:57 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/knhbuc/know_your_worth_and_risks/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/know-your-worth-and-risks.354167 https://theredarchive.com/post/354167

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