Lesbian dating stategy

071319 · 2020-02-08T19:52:56+00:00

I was in a 10 year partnership with a women, but I just kind of fell into it. IF I date again, it will only be with females and I don't even know where I'd begin, I'm following! Thanks for posting!

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SarcasmSlide · 2020-02-08T21:45:29+00:00

Oh! This is a great topic. I don’t think we have enough discussion about FDS principles that fall outside of heterosexual relationships.

Is there a FDS equivalent sub for our lesbian/bisexual sisters?

Evil_Rao · 2020-02-08T21:32:02+00:00

Someone created a thread on this a while ago, I hope you find it useful: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/euz417/fds_as_applied_to_ff_relationships_what_works/

CSardothien_1 · 2020-02-08T23:37:32+00:00

Most of what I see on OLD when I was still on it was women in ‘open relationships,’ looking to ‘explore’ their sexuality while still being tied to their male partner. In my experience, if a woman is still in the closet about feeling attracted to women, but wants to ‘explore’ my advice would be to not engage. 9/10 it’s a pick me who does have actual sexual feelings for women but is too afraid of exploring on her own, and therefore stays tied to her boyfriend. We all take our time coming out, I sure as hell did. I hid behind the facade that I was still ‘dating’ men in theory but only actively pursuing women. It’s not fun to be someone’s experiment, while they are still figuring out who they are. I will say however, there is this incredible bond when you do meet a beautiful woman who feels the same way about you, and understands the exact same problems you face in the world and how society sees you. Much love to all the gay girls on this sub, most of the time society doesn’t even acknowledge lesbians or bi-women.

kaizentigerr · 2020-02-09T02:37:02+00:00

Same shit. She pays for dates. Filter ruthlessly. The thing FDS gets wrong is that men have to pay for dates because x,y,z. It’s about how I wanted to treated. If you like being chased after and spoiled then it doesn’t matter what sex the other person is... own it :)

Title	Lesbian dating stategy
Author	Aigonorus
Upvotes	45
Comments	17
Date	February 8, 2020 6:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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