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Making us invisible....

libralia

December 3, 2020
56 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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Title Making us invisible....
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libralia

Upvotes 56
Comments 8
Date December 3, 2020 7:02 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/k63pp6/making_us_invisible/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/making-us-invisible.1193500
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Comments

[–]SavingsStrength0FDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

❤️ so powerful. Saving this speech.

[–]azureangel35FDS Apprentice 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

this needs to go viral. she is a fucking QUEEN

[–][deleted] 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]asinglepeanut 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You didn’t ask for advice so I’m sorry that this is unsolicited, and feel free to ignore me - but something that has really, really helped me in building my self-esteem was 1. Deleting Instagram (and other social media, but this was the biggest culprit) and 2. Finding beautiful women to admire who LOOK LIKE ME. If you find a celebrity with similar features to you - especially features you’re insecure about - and practise admiring them on that person, it becomes a lot easier to admire them on yourself. When I stopped scrolling longingly through waifish blonde women with long straight hair and toned bodies, and instead found beautiful women who shared my features, I became more and more confident

[–]Jiou112FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Random lurker also taking the unsolicited advice 😂 Love the admiring other women part. A way to build my confidence AND my bond to other women. Taking jealousy completely out, and using the energy into benefiting yourself is such a cool idea. Telling everyone to do this 😊

[–]FDSxMuffinVSrat 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tbh I find this kind of cringy.

I don't care if women put effort into their appearance. Sometimes it's for themselves and sometimes it's to attract men. I think neither are bad on its own...

I guess I'm just worried that it is saying that caring about your appearance is the result of capitalism gone wrong or it's a different version of men oppressing women.

And to the extent that you believe it's true for you, it's fine to modify your approach to beauty, if you think you've gone too far, but it's not true for everyone...

Idk I'm worried that stuff that shames the beauty industry gives fodder to people to shame women for caring about their appearance and put effort into it, which is a totally normal thing to do. You're not a slot or whore or a victim being duped for buying lipstick or using heavy eyeliner... Or god forbid grooming your face?

[–]ChoiceScarfMienfooFDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i love this so so much. it's just so powerful.

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