I believe that all women out there agree on the same thing: men always treat you well before having sex with you. This is easy to see and prove; it has happened to almost all of us and we understand that it comes from a feeling of conquest towards us.

But I have found -for many women- that is not easy to understand and internalize the fact that this phenomenon also occurs when we begin to reciprocate. When we finally open up and/or we want to date them in a serious way; all the efforts they made -and within efforts I also put the empathy that they very often falsify- are now non-existent. In all my relationships with an LVM partner this has happened to me.

At first I blamed myself and I spent hours reading about male behavior. Why they behave like this?, why does he no longer pay attention to me?, I am no longer attractive?. "10 things to drive a man crazy" (lol, so pickme🤮). The recurring google search that I did was: "how to make my boyfriend love me again" (🤮🤮 wtffffffff)

The answer to all my questions should be block and move first and then understand that men do not know how to love. Men only act well when it benefits them.