So basically, without getting into too much detail, my father wants a divorce and my mother does not. My parents lost one of my siblings about 2 years ago and it put a strain on the already sort of rocky relationship. My dad says he's tired of worrying about other people's feelings and just wants to isolate himself. My mom says me and my father are the only people she wants to be around usually, she doesnt have any close friends and says she doesn't want any. I'm just at a loss because it seems like they're looking at me to help them come to a conclusion. I suggested couples counseling which my father reluctantly agreed to try, although he seems to have his mind made up. Any advice on what my mom should do? She's in her early 50s and can't see herself starting over again at this point.