My husband is redpill'ed ...

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I've been trying to figure out where to post this for feedback, support, suggestions and here we are.

I've been married to my husband for over 12 years now. We have kids between the ages of 8 and 11 yrs old. We live abroad, I am American and he is European.

The first 10 years of our relationship he was liberal- we had very similar ideas about immigration, climate, BLM etc.. the last 1-2 he has gone hard right- he supports Trump, reads breibart and other misc publications daily if not a few times daily, he worships J, Peterson and that whole group of men. He believes climate change is a myth and so on.

I have spent a solid year ++ at this point trying to debate or reach some middle ground on our views but I don't feel anymore this is possible and I am unsure what to do. Many friends have told me to ignore it, not talk politics with him and so on. I have even talked to a lawyer and considered separating--

and so here I am- deer in headlights in the AF space. I would appreciate any thoughts or discussion on this.