I was with this ex-boyfriend for 1 week; we got together pretty quickly and I really thought he was the perfect guy. He was kind, understanding, and we just clicked. Would hold the door open for me and pay for my meals. Everything went to shits after I admitted to going through his discord. I didn't think it would be a big deal and I had only snooped for less than a minute. I didn't find anything too concerning, because everything was already cleaned out by then. He said he would be upset if I were to go through his discord, but forgave me after I confessed. Then everything just came out like puse being popped out of a pimple.

2 days ago, he confessed that during our courtship (before we even got together), he had sexted a girl he had slept with a few years ago. He said he was feeling really down about me not being interested him, but truth is I didn't know him well enough to like him, so I told him that I did not want to potentially lead him on. I guess I wasn't very clear on my decision at that time and made it seem like there was no chance between us. So he sexted her, then went out with me a few days later. I dumped him yesterday, because I couldn't stand the idea of him being weak for another woman. I wanted to vomit at the thought of him being seduced so easily, then dating me afterwards. He blamed her for "egging" him to sext back, but I said to him, "but you continued". He told me that he cried for 5 hours straight and haven't left his room. Idk why, but I just can't relate. With the help of FDS, my friends, and Lizzo, my heart break will probably heal within a months time.

Any advice is appreciated. I really do think the only way he can come back into my life, is if he became the HVM I deserved.