Never call them out for not caring, you already have your answer

QueensJuju · 2020-12-07T05:53:13+00:00

I thought I was such tough shit, so clever, so quick, when I would venomously tear down my abusive ex with words and logic. When I'd put him in his place, stand up for myself.

Nope! He was just basking in how worked up I would get over him. And it taught him my triggers, so he could cause explosive fights at damaging times. Taught him how to lie better to others, taught him to fake progress. And then he called me crazy anyway, and the neighbors probably agreed, I damn well was by the end.

No one you have to yell at or argue with is capable of treating you right and you're just turning yourself into something dark and miserable. Use your anger to treat yourself right and just remove the offending person. It's the only way to get what you really want.

rainbowshummingbird · 2020-12-07T05:30:16+00:00

I agree. There is no point in calling them out on anything. I wished I had learned this lesson when I was younger. The only plan that makes sense: block, delete, move on, do not look back, and no second chances given.

warinmymind94 · 2020-12-07T07:43:39+00:00

Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit. If this is how he treats you, you need to walk away.

bland_scissors · 2020-12-07T11:22:09+00:00

The best way to deal with any annoying man whether in any kind of setting is just to ignore them. They just want you to give them your attention and time, that's why block and delete is so effective and in the case of a professional setting, you only talk about work related thing and even then only what's needed to work nothing else.

Don't waste your time with them.

Marianne_wins · 2020-12-07T07:44:27+00:00

Oh wow, this is funny. The scrote in this picture even LOOKS like my ex-boyfriend. Can anyone else relate to sleeping alone at 5am, cuz your NVM named Brian is still playing video games and looking at porn? And there's me, the angriest lion. He'd hold onto that chicken, though.

2020-12-07T06:09:11+00:00

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Title	Never call them out for not caring, you already have your answer
Author	xoladybugxo
Upvotes	239
Comments	11
Date	December 7, 2020 5:19 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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