OLD experiment men are Stacy chasers

Amy3e13 · 2020-06-04T00:32:03+00:00

One more reason we shouldn't care if men call us gold diggers, when they themselves are beauty diggers. But men on dating apps are EXTRA entitled about it.

TheOGJammies · 2020-06-04T00:35:12+00:00

What did the hot guys ask for?

GlamorKiss · 2020-06-04T01:41:37+00:00

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wish_i_wasntavampire · 2020-06-04T04:55:39+00:00

TBH I think a good first step would be to stop dehumanising attractive women ( "Stacies").

Second, male attention has little to do with what you actually look like.
The pictures where I've been rated very high have actually generated little male attention on dating websites.
Most guys will respond to stuff like cleavage, bright makeup, long hair, well-fitting clothes.

Thirdly, from your post I get slight pick-me vibes possibly stemming from insecurity about your appearance. I'd seriously work on that before attempting dating. Convince yourself you're the shit. Swipe on those men you feel are on your level and actually FEEL you are on their level. Don't determine your value based on the type of men that shows interest in you, don't settle for less.
I used to be an ugly duckling and would sabotage myself by thinking "well this one's too hot, he'd never be interested in me because he has his pick of women etc, etc.". If you're anything like this, stop it.

And also... please stop this Stacy/Becky/whatever talk if you've been engaging in it. Start seeing attractive women as humans, not as competition - most of them are your normal everyday women, who just happen to put a lot of effort into their looks.
Ranking people into cathegories based on their appearance is behaviour I'd expect from LVM, not from women.

OrchidLion · 2020-06-04T05:35:55+00:00

Yeah its all based on looks tbh. The hottest guys aim for their looksmatch

Title	OLD experiment men are Stacy chasers
Author	GlamorKiss
Upvotes	6
Comments	30
Date	June 3, 2020 10:13 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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