Please support me this crisis, ladies

ralviee · 2020-03-03T12:11:33+00:00

Take a deep breath, sis. The hardest part is over; now you can start healing. My advice is to write down everything—no matter how small—that they did to hurt, belittle, or otherwise hold you back/make you feel worthless or hurt. You can return to those notes to remind yourself of why you left, or add to it when you remember something.

Then focus on a routine and let yourself grieve. You’ve still suffered a loss, even if it’s a positive change ultimately; you’re well within your rights to feel sad about it. Just don’t let yourself slide back. Keep those notes, and maybe start a new one for all the positive changes you’re noticing in your life.

Internet hugs, stranger. You’ve got this.

felixfelicis2014 · 2020-03-03T12:19:07+00:00

Oh don’t worry I did it too. And got back the most half assed message and it was actually a good thing- now it ends on my terms, I get to be the one who walks away. And I was the one brave enough to say something. Like me, you laugh at how pathetic he was and how brave you were and you move on. I LOVE this sub but I also think there’s real bravery in being honest and taking that leap. Now you move forward and love only yourself 💗

RiteWriter · 2020-03-03T15:15:11+00:00

Same. I've had personal circumstances that really forced me to go into solitude and really look at every part of my life (still doing this) and figure out what exactly I'm doing here and with my future time (still doing this, hah). I'm not realy on social media anymore, and it feels great. I'm also not in touch with many folks, and it's let me know who is HV in my life in a reciprocal way.

I really let the last LVM get to me--I let it all out, and was the voicemail and paragraph-sending pickmeisha. The WHY always hurts. Was any of this actually real? Part of letting it all out and into his meaningless void was actually pointless and demeaning, but in a way it helped--I don't ever want to feel that way again.

Sometimes, it feels lonely, but that's part of the process. I love that I can really feel and empower myself, though, and I'm so excited to deeply connect with and love all the parts of my being.

You will, too. You're strong, and good for you!

AntiCircles · 2020-03-03T22:35:23+00:00

You may want to analyze why it was easier to block women than men. Not ideal sis

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