And not just for the scrotes! I was just making out with a man I’ve gone on a few dates with. Still very early in the vetting process. I stopped to tell him I’m not comfortable having sex outside of a relationship, and would be taking this slowly. At the time it was actually difficult for me to pump the brakes but I had decided not to have casual sex and I knew I had to follow through.

I came home, masturbated, and holy shit. My first immediate thought after cumming was I’m so glad I’m alone right now.

Seriously, having an orgasm is an incredibly intimate experience. Too intimate to share with a man you are not in a relationship with. Post nut clarity immediately hit and I was so glad I was alone in my own bed and not naked and vulnerable with some man I barely know!