I just want to say I’m so so thankful to have found this. When I asked for a “sign” to end things with my boyfriend (now ex), I immediately discovered this space and I’m so grateful of how timing worked. Right now, what I’m having trouble is quieting my mind about how I saw red flags all throughout this relationship (7 months), and I ignored them. How can I be gentler with myself in trying to not beat myself up for the time I wasted and the fact that I didn’t stand up for myself when I should have? Thanks ladies.