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[–]ThinkTofuFDS Newbie73 points74 points75 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You're just training him to better fool the next girl.
Stop trying to flex on these guys by telling them about all their red flags. You just make them more crafty by teaching them which red flags they need to disguise. If you see red flags, simply block and move on.
You're doing a disservice to women by doing this.
[–]9penguinFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This also proves that teaching them your boundaries don't make them respect that or be ashamed of their behavior then change. They already know, they just don't care. What they'll do to you after you teach them is try to manipulate and negotiate until you give in. That'll make them smarter to manipulate and negotiate the other girl next time. Don't teach them, just leave.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly, getting into these back and forth discussions with guys is a waste of time. I had to learn this the hard way after giving well-thought-out sympathetic instruction manuals on basic human boundaries. They don't even see it as oh here's something that I can understand better to improve myself.. they are thinking okay what's the next hoop I need to jump through what exactly do I need to say to get what I want?
[–]amerikangirl23FDS Newbie[S] 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is a good point, love this sub and all it’s teaching me!
[–]LethalprincessrabbitFDS Newbie35 points36 points37 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
UGH just block him already girl
[–]spookmeterThrowaway Account33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"I'm not a nice guy, I just wanna make sure you sexy as f*** before I'm seen in public with you, I don't respect you, I AM ugly but I can give you "intellEctuAl StiMulAtion" yet mispelled waste (lmao) aka I have nothing to offer and want to WASTE your time."
edit: ps you should just halt responses and neeeever reply back after his last text. Make him fee gross hahahaha. What a hypocrite.
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It was a Freudian misspell
[–]coolestgirlyouevermeFDS Apprentice12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't need to prove yourself to him. Block.
[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"I'm no Apollo myself, but please prove me you are not fat, cause my peepee won't go hard unless you look like a porn actress"
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lnfaoooo. I mean unless you are an obese woman and you only have face shots from really high angles, there's no good reason for him to be asking this question. Imagine sending this clown pictures of your body. No way. What's he going to say, oh wonderful sexy body now that I know you are fuckable we can proceed with the date? Why not ask him to send his pay stubs?
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean, technically that is how male psychology works as confirmed by the books not your mother's rules and all the rules by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider (READ THESE BOOKS ASAP IT'S BASICALLY FDS IN BOOK FORMAT). But for him to say it out loud is a whole new level of fucking stupid. In other words, we know how men work (visual and only care about looks). Why the fuck is he explaining it to us? You're right, if he met you and you were not up to his expectation he could just never talk to you again and that was 15 minutes for a date. He spent way more time talking himself into a fucking corner then he would have meeting you on an actual date
[–]randomgirlimokFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Real reason: “Can I get a full body pic that I can add to my spank bank?”
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