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Self-described "stingy men" whine about Nigerian women's dating standards

Klarinassian

March 18, 2021
193 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-56416428
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Title Self-described "stingy men" whine about Nigerian women's dating standards
Author

Klarinassian

Upvotes 193
Comments 9
Date March 18, 2021 8:29 AM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/m7mchl/selfdescribed_stingy_men_whine_about_nigerian/
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[–]KlarinassianFDS Newbie[S] 187 points188 points189 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Buried in the male tears and female pickmes is this nugget of truth:

''Most young men approach women with what they can offer financially," says 38-year-old Nigerian fashion designer Amarachi Kanu.

"Usually, their intention of dating is for their own sexual benefit.

"Women ask for money and gifts as a form of reward in order not to feel used."

So men perpetuate this kind of glorified prostitution, then turn around and blame women for asking they *gasp* pay for dinner once in awhile before demanding to have their dicks sucked. Oh, the horror! Bet these dudes would throw a fit if women started a "stingy sexual service" group.

[–][deleted] 58 points59 points60 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

They set themselves up for failure then moan and blame women when they do fail. 🙄

[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh it’s women’s fault they have high standards

[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 37 points38 points39 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“We want to be pampered too” 🤮. They can’t be pampered their idea of a relationship with a woman is the same as buying a prostitute. Sex is their “pampering”. That is their reward for spending their money. How dare they ask that the “prostitute” take them out to dinner on her dime, or sleep with him for free or for less money. This is how they see women and relationships, it’s their problem to fix, not women’s. Good for these women on taking advantage while they can btw. Fuck these misogynists

[–]anahatasanahFDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not only that, but then the men expect women to stay home for a minimum of 15 years, foregoing their financial independence! They're salty about us remaining independent, but want to retain their ability to screw around behind our backs, leaving us with nothing. No, thank you.

[–]WildTendernessFDS Newbie 55 points56 points57 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is so cringey 😂 why do men think they have enough power in the dating world to create a change like this, first of all... If they can live w/o partners, good for them

[–]shelballamaFDS Newbie 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They can go join MGTOW and leave women alone then. I don't think anyone will complain.

[–]DifferentBar6 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"I dressed like this to his house and he denounced his membership of the Stingy Men Association." 😂

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