I would like to start an open respectful discussion about sex. Nowhere in the handbook have I read that we as women shouldn’t enjoy sex. Withhold sex, respect our energy and ourselves yes. After some earlier discussions on this in another post I feel inclined to mention we are sexual and amazing Queens with or without men. And if you are NOT enjoying sex with yourself or with partner(s) I ask for you to explore why. Being secure in ourselves isn’t just about psychological, financial, and physical wellness it is also about knowing our bodies and what does and does not work in bed for us. It is about accepting and loving ALL aspects of ourselves. If for some reason sex triggers you, start working through why, just as you would with any other topic that makes you uncomfortable. So for those women that believe that ALL men suck in bed or all sex isn’t good or for those women that are happily enjoying sex let’s talk and keep this respectful as strong women.