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She’s using the terms “guys” and “suitors” which has no context of exclusivity. In this sub we have no problem with seeing multiple men at once, in fact in my own personal experience it tends to do exactly what you’re describing. It leads to a greater ability to control exactly who you’d like to take the next step of exclusivity with on your own terms.
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