Sis, don't do it!

2340000 · 2021-05-21T02:48:42+00:00

Thanks for posting. But as an aside😎, it can be harmful to think of women's labor as either "girlfriend duties" or "wife duties".

Vetting is continuous. Men are not granted privileges when the relationship shifts from exclusive, to committed, to engaged, to married. He doesn't get more access to you by changing your label. Only his behavior determines that.

I understand the sentiment, but men need to earn your affection with consistent respect and care. He's rewarded with you. Not your cooking. Or sex. You.

cliterally_speaking · 2021-05-21T05:45:41+00:00

If anyone wants to see the full episode here it is! The above clip is from around 12:25.

Oof! There is SO much happening in the episode... Its clear he doesn't want to get married (with her) but says he's "waiting for the right time."

The whole thing is messy, but when the Judge speaks "Don't chase a ring, chase your future!" I felt that lil gospel in muh bones.

Platipus6 · 2021-05-21T04:32:33+00:00

They've been given this unpaid labor for so long they just expect it now, and lose their minds and think it's a punishment when it's gone.

ceramicunicorn · 2021-05-21T03:20:16+00:00

Man to the right losing long-held benefits is like “Oh GodDAMMIT”

Guyincognito9876 · 2021-05-21T06:45:26+00:00

Omg, that is perfect.

ennu_i_sao · 2021-05-21T11:32:26+00:00

Really wish I could send this to my female family member without making her defensive of her forever bf(that she thinks marrying will somehow fix🤢) but at least I have found my new motto

Title	Sis, don't do it!
Author	cliterally_speaking
Upvotes	400
Comments	9
Date	May 21, 2021 2:09 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/nhhk92/sis_dont_do_it/
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