Study these and swerve 👌🏼

suaveagave · 2019-10-30T21:45:16+00:00

It’s such a shame that sending naked pics has become so normalized for young women that it’s almost become a societal expectation in the dating game.

No man you’re getting to know for the first time is worth it, ladies. I immediately lose respect for and ghost the men who even ask for one.

melimiel · 2019-10-31T07:30:42+00:00

Okay but Can we talk about the not so obvious f*ck boys? These are the signs that most women would recognize. I feel like it’s even worse when he doesn’t show any of these signs but still messes with your head. The more subtle signs are:

Doesn’t beg for naked pictures from you but definitely has some stored on his phone from some other chick who gave it without request
Doesn’t believe in labels because he can never even communicate his feelings for you so you can never find the right time to talk about it.
Doesn’t take you out in public but will instead say he wants to “cook you dinner” which means he will have a better chance at hooking up with you. In reality he was cooking for himself.
Doesn’t say his ex is crazy but says how much she hurt him so you can feel sorry for him but never can take any blame for how the relationship failed.
(See 2 above)
Worse if he has a lot of money because it means he can attract a lot of women. So you become an option.
The victim card is easy for anyone to play.
Probably never calls you but you will randomly hear from him when he’s in town or has a fun plan to invite you on which makes it seem like he’s just thinking of you and has no ulterior motive.
Again...(see 2 above) no communication = not getting close enough to you for you to not even know who he is.
This guy is misunderstood because he doesn’t communicate who he is and truly feels about you.

Bottom line. Don’t be afraid to demand respect and don’t let the confusion hold you back from voicing your own feelings. Then you will see if he truly is a f*ck boy.

murph623 · 2019-10-30T21:53:35+00:00

When the boy you like is many of these......

That hurts

kaztheklutz · 2019-10-31T08:04:24+00:00

Hey look! It’s my past dating life! 😂🤣😅

Discochickens · 2019-10-31T05:30:06+00:00

Sends you texts “sup”

prettyexcitingnews · 2019-10-31T01:51:01+00:00

Sadly they are very attractive and they know it well, therefore many girls fall for them (including me). But ladies, please know your worth. You deserve better. Those fuckbois should be left alone, don’t feed their ego. They need a therapy. 🙂

snakesister_official · 2019-10-31T10:20:07+00:00

Wow! My crush is all of these except maybe claiming to have strong feelings for me. Mine is emotionally unavailable. Mostly he likes to whisper breathily that he has to have me... 😅 I’m on my way away from him now. Have only come a little way, but at least I’ve made the decision.

Aigonorus · 2019-10-31T21:15:07+00:00

Can anyone explain what's the meaning of "Doesn't believe in labels"?🤔 Labels as in bi/pan etc or something else??

chinu_2784 · 2019-10-31T01:08:35+00:00

Such a great analytical post.

toesandmoretoes · 2019-10-31T09:26:31+00:00

My boyfriend only does number 5, glad he’s not a fuck boy.

JuJuOwOUwU · 2019-10-31T14:11:41+00:00

Bruh I had an ex who did this it hits home lmao

midorisalsa · 2019-10-31T01:17:39+00:00

Well, that explains why i keep getting my heart broken...

lolumadbr0 · 2019-10-31T01:57:47+00:00

Omg so freaking true!

Title	Study these and swerve 👌🏼
Author	Liz_Lemondrop
Upvotes	948
Comments	28
Date	October 30, 2019 9:24 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dpd4ky/study_these_and_swerve/
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