🙋‍♀️ Recovering PickMe here. Things are harder than ever right now and I'm truly struggling and spiraling with loneliness in isolation but seriously you ladies are the GOAT.

Matched with a guy who seemed perfect online, 1st date went really well, 2nd date... not so much. He wouldn't start any conversations and only engaged/seemed excited when I brought up later plans to possibly hang out at my house, then immediately decided we should wrap up our date that night and just pick up on that later "date". 🙄

Driving home I was really disappointed. My suspicion that he was a LVM was confirmed when he's basically ghosted me the last 2 days, I thought about reaching out but the advice I've gotten here made me think better of it.

I don't need to chase a low effort man who has 0 interest in getting to know me as a human being. It's extremely frustrating because I explained after our 1st date I wasn't down to hook up as I am looking for a relationship, and he said he was too and that he was interested in dating me. Like what was the point of lying if you're just going to put in 0 effort on date 2 then just suddenly stop talking to me when we still supposedly "plans" to meet up for a 3rd date this weekend?

Whatever. I'm over it. I fucking hate being single and I hate dating but this sub has officially gotten me to shake off chasing a LVM early before I made any real physical or emotional investment. ❤👑

Will update on if he has the audacity to try and speak to me today or tomorrow about our now cancelled 3rd date.

Update: hit me with a "Hey" this morning & I shut it down/broke things off.