The grass is GREENER.

Inez_Honeyfox · 2019-11-02T21:07:46+00:00

Yep. I went from a husband who wouldn’t let me buy new boots in the fall but was more than happy to put money up his nose. Fuck that noise, I will never blend my money with someone else again. The man I see now pays to fly him and/or me cross country multiple times a year just to see each other, in addition to regular rose deliveries, spending cash and other gifts. Wait for the ones who are worth it.

rainisthelife · 2019-11-02T22:17:37+00:00

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Ms_Tilly · 2019-11-03T16:20:52+00:00

A man who has been after me for probably twenty years found himself single and sought me out. He wanted to bring me to a convention in Vegas. But he wanted me to pay half the plane ticket. Guess who never went to Vegas or spoke to him ever again?

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2019-11-02T22:19:54+00:00

The guy I was seeing straight up paid for an extravagant weekend away to Los Angeles, CA, where he paid for the Hotel, the travel, the food, the entertainment, and I got wined and dined and we even went to the beach.

STAY SELECTIVE LADIES, GHOST CHEAP, WORTHLESS MOIDS QUICKLY, RUTHLESSLY, AND UNAPOLOGETICALLY. The grass is DEFINITELY greener.

s_slayer · 2019-11-03T05:27:40+00:00

I just had this discussion tonight with an ex who would like to see me again. I said sorry, money is tight right now (which it is), he said he’d find a way to fly me to see him. I said let’s give it two months to work on ourselves and get extra motivated and he agreed. That’s what they do ladies - if they want to see you. They’ll pay, and they’ll wait too. They are patient. The wrong ones don’t wait and don’t ever talk to you again if the fantasy doesn’t pan out. Not only will be pay for my ticket, he will cook for me and take me out and treat me like a Princess because he has the utmost respect for single moms unlike a lot of guys in the moidosphere. That doesn’t make him a cuck or a loser. He’s funny and cool and no he’s not the best looking guy but his confidence and how he treats me more than makes up for it. He’s very fit too. Not real tall, but very fit. Don’t rest on your laurels, boys. Being tall and having money will never be enough if you haven’t bothered to do any character development or learn how to bond with women. In return, he knows I truly enjoy his company, why else would he want to see me again after many years? You let them know just by how you are with them that it’s more than just what you can get from them and if they’re mature men, they will have no problem trying to make things happen. Trust me on this.

rainisthelife · 2019-11-03T01:51:38+00:00

Yup. My bf paid over $200 for our first date, and then subsequently paid for others as well. He really went out on that first date because he recognized that he was with woman of value and wanted to impress me. And since then, he spends well on me and enjoys doing it because he inherently believes that it’s his job to take care of his woman and make her feel special and because he knows I’m worth it.

If I call him, he’s available and reliable. If I need something, he’s always ready to help. And sometimes when I don’t ask, he offers. And for these things, I show him love and appreciation.

When you’ve been with a high value worthy man that makes you feel great and prioritizes you, all the other losers you might date become inconsequential in comparison. Know your worth, know your value, stand by it and let it reflect in the men you date.

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Loiacono3137 · 2019-11-03T10:34:33+00:00

Trueee

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Title	The grass is GREENER.
Author	littletonothinghere
Upvotes	282
Comments	26
Date	November 2, 2019 7:31 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dqp4s3/the_grass_is_greener/
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