I had a thought and also a recent example in real life.

Let's face it we are all imperfect and have flaws. This is life.. so even a HVM may not be the best version of himself from time to time (as long as it doesn't trespass your limits and values) but the difference between a HVM and a LVM and also between a HVW and a LVW for that matter is that when a HVM does someting not so great and you, as a queen, hold your standards and ACT accordingly... the HVM will do 3 things:

  • he will address his behavior immediately and never be angry or upset with you calling him out or moving on accordingly. Nor will he gashlight you, EVER.
  • he will step up
  • he will be appreciative that you didn't accept less so that he can be the best version of himself which he ultimately wants to be.

All these 3 components are very important.

If there is only one present in the guy's attitude, then he is not HV.

For instance, if the guys step ups but is not appreciative, he will turn resentful and his mask will slip up sooner or later because you're ToO mUCh WOrk.. and you will feel the appreciation by him respecting you more and he will cherish you for this reason. A HVM recognize a HVW when he sees one.

Don't settle for any less ladies!!