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[β]royaldetourFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hell yes!! You will notice so much push back from those who benefited from taking advantage of you. Men, parents, pickme friends, coworkers, whoever... don't let them deter you, queens!!
[β]JiltedGroupieFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I sure do wish I was raised this way! Glad I know it now but whew... I lost so much precious time and youth.
[β]dumbroadFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i think i am the first woman in the history of my genetic ancestry that has learned this. sad.
remember yall, it takes a village. be there for young girls and let them know shit like this.
sucks because a 30 year old woman computer sci grad student volunteering at a school spreading this type of info would probably be labeled like an old hag spinster instead of a wise man
[β]BovvsetteFDS Disciple16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Once you love being your lone self, vetting becomes easier and there is less chance of letting in those who seek to use and destroy you, mess with and sabotage your life. It's healthier to step back and think whether you really want or benefit from the situation than blindly agreeing to put your hands in the same dumpster fire over and over again, getting burned every time and never learning.
[β]CoffeeAppleTaterTotFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[β]Terrible-CharityFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Parents of someone I know did this, now they're rich hut have no friends. They're also kind of shitty people so Β―_(γ)_/Β―
[β]washopingyoudaskFDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Getting your shit together is not about getting rich. It's about creating a life of quality that you're proud of. A lot of people don't have standards for themselves and want to hold you back from reaching your potential. Shedding those people may feel lonely at first, it may always feel lonely, but it's a heck of a better life than living amongst shitty selfish people
[β]jargon_explosionFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
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[β]GAaliyah12Pickmeishaβ’οΈ1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is so true. Right now I'm paying off all of my debts and I live in a dorm with younger people. I haven't been able to make friends or anything because I don't go out as often nor party because I don't have the funds. I get lonely, but I love the idea of being financially free more.
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[β]BovvsetteFDS Disciple16 points17 points18 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[β]Terrible-CharityFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[β]washopingyoudaskFDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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