We're not settling

volcanic_equation · 2021-03-06T18:33:13+00:00

Being uncertain of your place in a partner’s life, is one of the most draining and self-depreciating positions to be in.

It’s important for everyone, and young women especially, to be aware of this.

Even if it’s not a long term thing. The second you start to feel confused, or things seem “awkward”, around the person you’re dating, take a step back.

Never ask them if you’ve done something to upset them. Do not beg for their attention in any way, shape, or form.

Just pull back, observe the response, and if warranted, block & delete.

advice1988 · 2021-03-06T18:06:31+00:00

100% right. Painful but a must. Don’t wait for people to change themselves to meet you at your level, they are either there or not ( friends & family & coworkers too) that’s wishful thinking and a time waste. You only get the one life. Boundaries save you from heartbreak and make you decisive.

hateitherexx · 2021-03-06T21:04:04+00:00

We may have that initial reaction, but it's always great to remember that you deserve to be respected and appreciated !!

Title	We're not settling
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	74
Comments	5
Date	March 6, 2021 5:45 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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