Hello! I’m 22 and I’ve been finding this sub super helpful for the past few days. It has helped a lot with my self-esteem and made me realize how to better keep my boundaries when every other place online is saying things like “if you don’t put out by x time, he’ll drop you.”

I’ve been using bumble and okcupid for the last month but I’ve been unimpressed with the quality of men. I don’t know where to meet HVM and I’m in a new state, so I don’t have a network yet, but I don’t think I can keep online dating when the men I match with are such poor conversationalists.